Okay, good news first: ZACH IS BACK IN THE UNITED STATES!!!!!!! For the first time in 5 months, I feel like I can finally relax knowing he’s not in a war zone. The reason he is home early is because he needs surgery on his shoulder. So, even though he’s back in the US, he probably won’t be home with us for another couple of months. But within the next month, we will be driving to wherever he is to see him 🙂 Waiting a little longer for him to be at home with us will be a breeze compared to waiting all these months that he’s been in Afghanistan.
Transitioning Irelyn to her crib…this has been interesting. Since she was born, we have co-slept. I have one of these cute little “snuggle nests” and she sleeps about 6″ away from me in our bed. She has always been a wonderful sleeper – after surviving the first couple weeks of nursing around the clock, she wakes up once or twice a night to nurse, I lay her back down and she drifts off to sleep. I love having her right next to me during the night (because I can easily check on her anytime and because I hate sleeping alone). I co-slept with Kaden for at least a few hours of the night until he was 7 months old and loved it.
So, here are the reasons I’m trying to transition her to her crib.
1. She’s starting to get too big for the snuggle nest. She wiggles around and can scoot down to the middle of it, which makes me nervous because I don’t want her roll off the bed.
2. She’s getting to big for her swaddle blanket. I want to move her to her crib while she’s still swaddled, so she can get use to the new bed before changing anything else.
3. Zach will be home soon. We have a queen size bed and regardless of what the picture on the website shows, the little bed takes up more space than you’d think. Since my husband has been gone all but 8 weeks of our year long marriage and we’ve spent most of it with an entire ocean between us, he’s gonna have a hard time keeping me from hugging him all day, let alone at night (which I can’t do if our daughter is sleeping in the middle and we’re both hanging off the edges of the bed). 🙂
Now for our progress so far. I really don’t know because apparently I’m incapable of leaving her in her bed long enough to find out. Here’s my one…and only attempt: I put her in her crib at 10:20pm (same time I usually lay down with her for the night and she sleeps til 4am), I didn’t check on her til 10:40pm (still sleeping peacefully), made myself sit in the living room til 11:15 (she hadn’t made a peep), I tried to go to sleep (failed miserably) and got her out of bed at 11:45pm (we were both happily sleeping next to each other by midnight). I keep telling myself “tonight will be the night I try again”. Never happens. I can actually convince myself during the day that I will go to bed without her and even go so far as to getting her room ready for bedtime. Then it starts getting dark outside. And 10pm comes, I nurse her and we happily lie down in my bed and are asleep within minutes. Why ruin a good thing, right?
I will move her to her crib.
Eventually. Soon. While I was trying to go to sleep that one night without her, in my attempt to rationalize why I should just give up, I realized I have never slept away from her since she was born (& for 9 months before that if you wanna get technical). She’s been away from me for a total of 2 hours (it took 3 separate occasions to total 2 hours) and has had 4 bottles (totaling 3 ounces of milk – I’ll have to post the video of her attempting to drink a bottle, she’s clueless). Needless to say, we both I may have a slight separation issue. This is actually new to me, I went back to work full time when Kaden was 5 weeks old and I spent a night away from him when he was 7 months. At this rate, I don’t think Irelyn will be away from me for more than dinner & a movie with the hubby by the time she’s 7 months. Oh well…I still have a little time before Zach comes home to work on this. 🙂
She also rolled from her tummy to her back for the first time tonight! I was practically touching her when she rolled and I missed it because I was reaching for something. Here she is with her favorite toy.